Thursday, May 6, 2010


1 comment:

Melissa said...

Your post is amazingly timed. I made this very argument today, right down to the choice of the word burden.

Being in a rough place right now too, I made my argument in therapy...

So here's what I can offer you based on my couch visit today. :o)

Wouldn't you want a friend or family member to call you with their hurt? Would you think of it as a burden?

I could be totally wrong but you'd probably want to help. You'd probably feel good about helping, even if the only help you could offer was a listening ear.

Give someone else the chance to give that gift back to you.

Whatever you decide though, pushing it down should not be on the list.

((hugs)) melissa